Monday, August 31, 2020

Dad and Daniel do Kindergarten!

 We're through one week of Kindergarten, and so far, so okay! DanPar started off really shy, and, well, he's still shy, but at least he's willing to sit in front of the camera now!

DanPar's first class, lying on the ground away from the computer.

He's very quiet, very hesitant to talk, but last time he confided in me that he did want to share his drawing of what makes him special, so I told him to raise his hand. He barely raised it; it was under his shoulder. But Ms. Furay (pronounced "fury") noticed it, and Daniel talked all about his exploding creeper shirt, how much he likes Cap'n Crunch, and his four-layer rainbow dice!

He's my special guy!


He's been doing better each day; I've been next to him every time, as we start with small 30-minute classes. We'll see how he does this week, when we extend them to 90 minutes! I may have to leave to take care of the others as we go; we'll see!

Very much improved!

Well, there's nothing like Kindergarten to get my own thoughts on track. It's nice to think about those very fundamental concepts, and it's been, I don't know, therapeutic? We talked about what to do when you're worried (talk about it), and what makes us special! For me, it's that I like Dungeons and Dragons, I listen to NPR, I like spicy things, and I help people see that they belong and that they matter. (That last one is sort of my personal superpower.)

There was a lesson on hopes and dreams, and DanPar drew himself fighting a zombie. And that's all right by me. Maybe I could make a game where he pretends to do different jobs when he grows up. But what's important to me now is that he knows how to play nice, be nice, and follow directions when asked by an adult in charge. He's my very good boy.

He's doing a good job, and it's fun for me to sit down and participate in all of their activities!

It's a crazy world, it's not the Kindergarten we were all asking for, but by gum, it's the Kindergarten we've got, and we're making the most of it! I am proud of my boy.

Thursday, August 6, 2020

New house in a week!

So, my last post was a bit gloomy-doomy and, uh, testes-westes, but hey, I was afraid, so fine. As it is, I still feel some strain if I've been on my feet for a while, and they are extremely sensitive! But after a week of steroids, the swelling is almost gone, and I'm feeling better about the whole situation.

So it's time to DREAM!!!!
About the new house!

Okay, I want our house to be super inviting, super nice, and super fun.

Inviting:
- Upon entering the first time, people know where to put their shoes, where to get a glass of water, where to get a snack, and where to get some washcloths. (Ever make a mess at someone's house and not know where the stuff to clean it up is?) I want things to be nice, but not to feel like you're not allowed to kick your feet up, lest you leave a fingerprint.

Nice:
- Keep the floor level area tidy, have a place for everything and keep everything in its place. Sure, there will most likely be a place for "here's stuff I'll have to get to but I can't right now", but it'll be someplace where it looks nice. And the kids' toy boxes will have labels! And hey, I could do with a stick vacuum to use after every meal!

Fun:
- I want activities to be around, even if they're a bit hidden. Crossword puzzles in the coffee table; jigsaw puzzles next to books on a shelf; interactive pictures on the wall. Oh, and if you go upstairs? Welcome to the loft, aka FUN TIME METROPOLIS CITY EXTREEEEEEEME!!!! Art supplies, books galore, toys toys toys!

I look forward to living in my own house, making my own rules, telling my boys that I love how much fun they're having. They are wonderful boys, and I'm now just so excited to get to work on the house where they're going to grow up!

Sweet Echo loves chalk, which he calls "color", and DanPar loves putting powdered chalk onto his face!

Some sweet guys just playing at the church park!

DanPar made a little DanPar pancake with red pickleball shoes!

Echo likes pancakes! Especially with chocolate chips and pancakes!

Crash Boy tends to only eat the peanut butter and chocolate off the top... must be why he's so sweet!

I made the boys as adults in The Sims 4!

Playing with some boxes!

Fishing pole grappling hooks are the only things keeping them from sliding down into the quicksand!!!

Our very short paper chain! Only a few days left, we can make it!

Hanging out at Kip's house, playing with the big pool, splashing around!

I'll remember the view, that's for sure!


I'm working on another list of things I'm going to remember from this summer! It's been a crazy summer, and by golly, I'm going to remember the good stuff!